“It’s better to be a happy loner”
How this quote can be delightful..? But Some will agree with the quote and some will abandon it the moment they read it.
Who am I?
Well, this is the question, not everyone finds an answer to. In general a person needs someone to go out with whenever they feel “lonely”. They pick up their phones, ring their closest ones to eliminate that feeling.
How can you know about yourself if you are like this and If you see loneliness as a curse. You have a fear that loneliness/isolation leads to depression. There are two sides of a coin. Right?
Coin’s other side
First of all, stop looking at it as something bad and as if you are a person who’s at fault for your solitariness. Blaming yourself or others stop doing that!
Have you ever tried analysing your behaviour in those “alone times”. Ever tried to recollect the instances in your life from the past and examined your reactions that why you reacted that way?..let’s not talk about whether it was good or bad.
I mean who are we to judge about that because we have our own backgrounds,upbringing, conditioning. So something that is good for me might be bad for you and vice versa. What do we say? Agreed? Now you are talking.
Have you Ever tried to sit alone and let those random thoughts pass through your mind. Because mind is really powerful so is the heart. They will give you something to hold on to. May be a dream, a plan, a solution, a confusion. It’s good to have confusion because that way you’ll seek answers. Two minute silence for those who are “I know everything” types.
Purpose in life
What if these thoughts give you a dream to dedicate your entire life to, a life’s purpose. You’ll actually realise you were made to achieve that dream. That you were born to pursue it. To become that person.
But let me remind you about your belief that loneliness/isolation/solitariness is a curse. An UNFORTUNATE thing in life. Well,still think so?
- Untill you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you are choosing someone out of love or loneliness.
- I’m learning a lot about myself being isolated and doing whatever I’m doing.
- You can’t be strong all the time. Sometimes you just need to be alone and let your tears out.
- Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.
- Standing alone is better than being around people who don’t value you.
What if there’s a hidden message from the universe? When you mostly find yourself alone.🙂